June 25, 2011

SURVIVING A WEEK WITHOUT A DIAL TONE


The phone company brought several trucks to our neighbourhood last Friday for preventative maintenance. After they left, we lost our dial tone until the following Friday.

Fixing our line took five hours, three trucks and several technicians. The cause? Damaged wiring houses away.

Not everything has a dial tone to tell you something is wrong.

Wireless

Since everyone in our family has a mobile phone (and the monthly bills to prove it), a landline might seem unnecessary. Wrong. We
  • missed an important call from overseas
  • missed the date change for a school event and arrived a day early (much better than a day late)
  • missed ... who knows what else? Telemarketers couldn't reach us with their latest greatest offers

Plan B

The alternatives (mobile phones and email) were not suitable substitutes. If you called, the phone rang and rang. You might think the problem was with our answering machine and eventually stop trying. You might not bother contacting us in other ways even if you knew how.

As the days passed, we started experiencing an unsettled feeling of loss. We took phone service for granted ... until we lost the dial tone. We almost missed the telemarketers.

Elsewhere

How strange to value the bird in the wood more than the bird in the hand. Yet all too common. We most value
  • extra keys ... when we're locked out
  • batteries ... when there's a power failure
  • fire extinguishers ... when there's a flame
  • medicine ... when we're in pain
  • insurance ... when there's a claim
To get protection when we need it, we need to prepare in advance. Getting ready now gives us peace of mind. That's worth more than we realize.

No Dial Tone

When you pick up your phone and don't get a dial tone, you know there's a problem. What if there's no obvious sign? Dead batteries look fine. Your spare tire inflater looks fine. Your fire extinguisher looks fine. You can't be sure they'll perform when you need them even if you check them. Having extras might help. Medicine has a "best before" date. Replacing the old according to a schedule may be the solution.

Intangibles are even tougher to check. Your investments and insurance may look okay. You might not know how to inspect them yourself or who to trust for a review. Relying on the salesperson is less than ideal without ongoing signs of trust. Is what you sold me still right for me? You can guess the answer.

Scheduled preventative maintenance can have side effects. Yet it's essential.

Gotta go. The phone's ringing.

Links

Podcast 123 (3:57)


direct download | Internet Archive page | iTunes

PS After the phone repairs, a technician said we may have problems with the wiring inside our house. They'd be willing to take a look ... for a fee. No thanks. We had enough maintenance for now.

June 18, 2011

YOUR DIGITAL TAPESTRY IS YOUR LEGACY

crude (click to enlarge)taking shape (click to enlarge)finer (click to enlarge)Mona Lisa (click to enlarge)
Everything you do online adds to your permanent digital tapestry which grows pixel by pixel, letter by letter, frame by frame and note by note. You aren't Leonardo Da Vinci but you too can leave a Mona Lisa.

Isn't being visible online risky? Others can see you. Your mistakes are permanent. Maybe we're not important enough to leave a legacy. Let's not quit that readily.

Mistakes

I am an old man and I have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened.  — Mark Twain
You will mess up. Everyone does. The consequences vary. You may think everyone is looking but they're busy with their own lives. Or the latest celebrity scandal.

Doing more things establishes what's "normal" for you. As your tapestry grows in size and detail (resolution), the small blemishes and mistakes vanish. The big deviations lose their significance. You become predictable --- not in the sense of boring but as reliable and consistent.

Hiding

Where's Waldo? (click to visit wiki)
Like Waldo in the Where's Waldo books, your "unforgivable" mistake is somewhere. Someone could find it but few will take the time to search. Even if found, this "Waldo" may not be of much relevance — especially as time passes.

The searchers will also have a deeper appreciation of you from their exploration. Human frailties bring us closer together. We don't want perfection even in our superheroes. After all, Iron Man didn't  save Leslie Bibb and the painting of Mona Lisa isn't perfect.

The Bigger Challenge

Your bigger challenge is escaping from the cage of mediocrity and fading without a trace.

You don't want to be one of the interchangeable drab minions in Apple's '1984' commercial. Instead, smash conformity with your personality. That's your free hammer.

Why Bother?

Your digital tapestry is your legacy, the past you build everyday. Your tapestry is part of the impression you make on others. This might even be the first impression.

Hiding

Parting gift from George W BushStaying offline is hardly a solution. Others can discuss you without your knowledge or permission. You might not even know. This is like a sign stuck to your back with the words "KICK ME" written there. You may be oblivious but you're not invisible.

You are leaving a digital tapestry even if you'd rather not. This is empowering if you choose to be the artist.
When you're gone, your digital tapestry could remembered more than your financial legacy.

Links

Podcast 122 (3:44)


direct download | Internet Archive page | iTunes

PS When you're the artist, you'll get a kick --- instead of getting kicked.